God’s View of Marriage and Divorce – The Biblical Standard


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Image result for DivorceWell, today I woke up with this topic in my spirit. Whenever the Lord presses me to write on a sensitive issue, I always feel the I need to pray about it before I pursue it, so here is what I believe is God’s view point regarding the issue of DIVORCE. I will first give the Biblical view point on the topic and then I’ll add my 2 cents on it at the end.


Before I even go into depth regarding God’s view on the topic of DIVORCE, I must first define what a Marriage is by Biblical standards. Marriage in The Bible is defined as one union between 1 Man and 1 Woman (PERIOD). Anything outside this definition and context is contrary to the Biblical definition of marriage. Therefore, things like “same-sex marriages” or “polyamorous marriages” etc, do not fit in the Biblical context or definition of a Godly marriage. If you look at 1 Corinthians 7:1- 7The Bible confirms this definition, if you read the following that I’ve bold-ed:


1 Corinthians 7 

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Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me:

It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. But I say this as a concession, not as a commandment. For I wish that all men were even as I myself. But each one has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that.


The Bible also highlights SPECIFICALLY that the unmarried and those who are widows (married individuals who have lost their spouse through death), are categorically those that are allowed to marry if they choose to do so; and if these individuals (categorically speaking) lack self-control with respect to their sexual desires. It is better for such people, categorically speaking, to marry rather than commit adultery or fornicate (have sex outside of marriage) as a consequence of their lack of self-control as is stated in the following verses of scripture:


1 Corinthians 7: 8-9

But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; 9 but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.


Those that have had sex outside the context of a marriage have sinned by God’s standard, and must confess and repent of their actions if they are truly contrite and aware that they have fallen short in this area of their lives. Some people may have had sexual experiences in their lives without knowing God’s standards regarding sexual purity and marriage, especially for those who weren’t Christian in the first place (unbelievers). However, once a person is aware and knows that engaging in such activities is sinful by God’s standards, they must choose not to engage any further in this area of sin after that. Those that continue in the knowledge of it are guilty of sinning in this area of their lives by their own volition and choice.


What about Rape, Molestation, or Exploited victims? 

In my opinion, those that have had sexual experiences against their will are not guilty of having had such experiences that compromised their purity by God’s standards. However, those that have committed such atrocities against another person or person(s), are guilty and have sinned greatly by God’s standards, and such individuals do end up reaping whatever thing they have sowed. I know that in the old testament times, raped victims ended up marrying their rapists under the Mosaic laws during those times. This was done as a means of restoring the raped victims honor (in a patriarchal Hebraic society), since the victim was considered no longer a virgin, and therefore, no man would have wanted to marry her. This law was instituted to restore a raped victims honor for her to be eligible to get married, and therefore, she would subsequently marry her rapist. I don’t know about you, but I think a victimized woman would rather remain single than marry her rapist… but I don’t know… that’s just me.


The Bible is also emphatic about husbands and wives keeping their marriage vows regardless of whether their partner is a Believer or not. If one partner is a Believer of Christ – A Christian, then the other spouse is also sanctified by their believing spouse in their marriage, and their children also become holy. However, if the unbelieving spouse chooses to leave the marriage, The Bible states in 1 Corinthians 7:15 that they should let them depart because how can they know whether or not they can save their unbelieving spouse? Only God can save an unbelieving spouse.


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10 Now to the married I commandyet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. 11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.

12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?


In 1 Corinthians 7: 25-28, The Bible states that for those who are unmarried and virgins, that it is alright to remain as you are since you aren’t bound to anyone. However, just because your single doesn’t necessarily mean you live life without some sense of self-restraint and self-control. This doesn’t give a single person the license to act crazy and live life recklessly and irresponsibly. However, if a single person or widow marries, they have not sinned according to God’s standards.


To the Unmarried and Widows

25 Now concerning virgins: I have no commandment from the Lord; yet I give judgment as one whom the Lord in His mercy has made trustworthy. 26 I suppose therefore that this is good because of the present distress—that it is good for a man to remain as he is: 27 Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife. 28 But even if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Nevertheless such will have trouble in the flesh, but I would spare you.


In 1 Corinthians 7:32-40The Bible makes a distinction regarding the differences between a married person versus an unmarried person.

For those that are unmarried, they are identified as those who: 

  1. care for the things of the Lord and how they may please Him (verse 32)
  2. care about being holy both in body and in spirit.
  3. when not given in marriage, they are those that do better (verse 38).

In contrast, for those that are married, they are identified as those who:

  1. care about the things of the world (verse 33)
  2. care about how they may please their spouse.
  3. when given in marriage, they are those that do well (verse 38).

32 But I want you to be without [b]care. He who is unmarried [c]cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the Lord. 33 But he who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife. 34 There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. 35 And this I say for your own profit, not that I may put a leash on you, but for what is proper, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction.

36 But if any man thinks he is behaving improperly toward his [d]virgin, if she is past the flower of youth, and thus it must be, let him do what he wishes. He does not sin; let them marry. 37 Nevertheless he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but has power over his own will, and has so determined in his heart that he will keep his [e]virgin, does well. 38 So then he who gives [f]her in marriage does well, but he who does not give her in marriage does better.


In the last 2 verses of the same chapter, The Bible clearly states that the wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives, but if he dies, she is at liberty to marry whomever she chooses in the Lord. Therefore, there is no room for an adulterous affair to take place, nor does a marriage permit having various other partners in the context of a Godly union.


39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. 40 But she is happier if she remains as she is, according to my judgment—and I think I also have the Spirit of God.

What about the Issue of Divorce? What is God’s take on the topic?

In order to talk about Divorce, we must look at Jesus’ perspective on the matter when the Pharisees tested Him on this same subject by looking at the following verses of scripture found in:


Matthew 19:1-10 (NKJV)

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19 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan. And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.

The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?”

And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who[a]made them at the beginning made them male and female,’ and said,‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.

They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?”

He said to them, Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for [b]sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.

10 His disciples said to Him, “If such is the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry.”


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It is clear that Jesus clarifies the parameters that allow for a Divorce of a marital union to take place in the book of Matthew 19:1-10 (NKJV). According to Jesus:

  1. Divorce was introduced in The Bible during the days of Moses where a certificate of divorce was issued to put away a man’s wife (verses 7-8). However, Jesus also stated that from the beginning, that wasn’t part of God’s plan. This was a man-made law created for a sinful generation that didn’t value the sanctity of marriage.
  2. Jesus, Himself, states that a divorce is only permitted if there is evidence of adultery, where one spouse has practiced sexual immorality and then chooses to marry another person.
  3. Jesus also makes it clear in verse 9 that whoever marries a divorced person has committed adultery.

I find it interesting that Jesus makes it clear in Matthew 19:4-6 that the Lord made us Male and Female and for this reason, a (male) man will leave his parents house and be joined together with his (female) wife and the two will become one flesh. No where does Jesus define this concept of marriage as homosexual, bisexual, or polymorous in nature, etc etc. It’s strictly between 1 man and 1 woman by God’s definition, so people really have no room to get this twisted.


So what about those that were once divorced and have married someone else?

The truth is, Biblically speaking, those that marry someone else after divorcing their first spouse have committed adultery by God’s standard.


Does that mean that they should divorce their new spouse to make things right? Divorcing twice over doesn’t make much of a difference, because adultery has already taken place and adultery is sin. Sin, is sin is sin is sin. There’s no two ways about this. All I can say is that for anyone that has committed adultery in someway, Go before God and seek repentance for making such a decision and life changing mistake. If you truly fear God, your spirit will be convicted of this Truth. Once a person is divorced, they are not permitted to marry someone else as is stipulated in The Bible, because that will be deemed as an act of ADULTERY; but we live in a sinful generation that so many people choose to ignore this and go about their business doing whatever it is that they like. I know that with the whole thing about Israel Houghton marrying his new wife Adrienne Bailon after divorcing his first wife, Meleasa Houghton, many have been quick to judge him on his choice to marry someone else with a condemning attitude… but I believe Jesus would look at his accusers and ask them this question in John 8:7:


John 8:1-12 (NKJV)

Jesus the Light of the World

But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives.

Now [a]early in the morning He came again into the temple, and all the people came to Him; and He sat down and taught them. Then the scribes and Pharisees brought to Him a woman caught in adultery. And when they had set her in the midst, they said to Him, “Teacher, [b]this woman was caught in adultery, in the very act. Now [c]Moses, in the law, commanded us [d]that such should be stoned. But what do You [e]say?” This they said, testing Him, that they might have something of which to accuse Him. But Jesus stooped down and wrote on the ground with His finger, [f]as though He did not hear.

So when they continued asking Him, He [g]raised Himself up and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first.” And again He stooped down and wrote on the ground. Then those who heard it, being[h] convicted by their conscience, went out one by one, beginning with the oldest even to the last. And Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst. 10 When Jesus had raised Himself up [i]and saw no one but the woman, He said to her, “Woman, where are those accusers [j]of yours? Has no one condemned you?”

11 She said, “No one, Lord.”

And Jesus said to her, “Neither do I condemn you; go [k]and sin no more.”

12 Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, “I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.”


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As you can see, the scribes and Pharisees were quick to judge a person by their self-righteous standards; however, when it comes to God, we must always remember that the judgment we place on another person will be weighed against ourselves by God’s standards.


Matthew 7:2-4 (NKJV)

For with what [a]judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye’; and look, a plank is in your own eye?


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Image Source: Israel and former wife Meleasa

Does that mean that Israel Houghton didn’t commit adultery? No… because according to The Bible, he has committed adultery in marrying his 2nd wife Adrienne Bailon while divorcing his 1st wife Meleasa Houghton. However, I am of the opinion that he himself needs to be convicted of that truth. It’s simple to point the finger at him as outside observers expecting a higher standard of behaviour from him simply because he is a worship minister… but sometimes I feel that certain Christians … no matter what platform, position or title they carry within the church, if they are not taught what the Fear of the Lord is, they will be prone to making such mistakes. It is easier to expect a higher standard of such people; however, anyone is capable of making this mistake as with other mistakes, so we shouldn’t put such people on a high pedestal expecting them to be perfect when they are simply just human. At the end of the day, Israel Houghton and Adrienne Baillon both have to feel convicted that they have committed adultery by the Biblical definition of it, and be repentant of it themselves; between themselves and God. Anyone can be in denial regarding their actions in any area of their lives; however, if you are not convicted by Biblical standards of truth… then people leave room to sear their conscience bit-by-bit if they lack spiritual conviction that causes one to seek repentance from the Lord for their short-comings. There is no room to re-interpret what Jesus’ considers as adultery when it’s written plainly in The Bible for anyone to understand. Again I say, Sin is sin is sin is sin. There’s no two ways about it…


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Image Source: Israel Hougton marries Adrienne Bailon

Although the deed is done, that doesn’t mean that our God is not quick to forgive when one comes before Him contrite in spirit while acknowledging their sin and short-comings. However, just because God forgives, doesn’t mean that people don’t end up reaping whatever they have sown. Sin always has a list of  consequences that follow, so it is important to learn to reverentially Fear the Lord in all that you do. It’s so easy to point fingers at other people who have fallen short and make a tabloid out of their mess. However, we must remember that the way in which we treat others, will be the same measure used to judge what we will receive in return. You get what you dish out. If you dish out judgments and criticisms towards other peoples flaws, you’ll receive the same level of treatment and judgment in return. Do not be the one that casts the first stone. As Christians, it is important to remember to remain humble and forgive others when they make mistakes. Don’t be quick to judge others so harshly without understanding their circumstances.


When judging another, we must remember that the measure you give is what you will receive in return. Let me make it clear in that although God is just to forgive us, this doesn’t give us a license to continue sinning in any area of our lives. We have to fear God in such a reverential type of way that we don’t end up searing our consciences just to go by what is politically correct in order to feed our fleshy desires rather than what is Biblically correct. Divorce is not of God since He hates divorce; however, God is just to forgive those who have gone through with this in their lives.


When correcting your brother or sister regarding a moral flaw, do so with love and righteousness rather than with condemnation, while at the same time, not watering down the truth so that they can sleep well at night. Correct and rebuke in such a way that it brings about inner-conviction to go back to God and seek forgiveness for their moral flaws, and to turn away from straying into the wrong path that doesn’t lead them in the right direction. This is how we teach others to REVERENTIALLY Fear the Lord. We must remember, not to be condemning when correcting our brother or sister. We should always correct in a truthful but loving manner so as to bring about inner conviction that leads a person to correct their actions that causes them to turn away from sin and repent of their behaviour. As Christians, we cannot afford to water-down the truth so that others can simply “sleep well at night”. We are our brother’s keeper so let us pray for each other when struggling with sin in certain areas of our lives rather than pointing the finger. I believe that this message was for someone needing to read this today. I pray that this post blesses you today. God Bless You Everybody! 😀

Three Types of People that Exist in Your Life


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Today, I wanted to post an encouraging video with respect to the 3 types of people that exist in your lives. Assess the types of people you have around you so that you recognize who is really meant to be in your life. You can have truly solid people that keep you grounded and stable with respect to your character development; whereas, some people can toss you about into chaos if they themselves aren’t stable people with respect to their personalities. When you watch the analogy that is presented in this video, think about uprooting those kinds of people that don’t need to be in your life and respect those that have always been there for you through the thick and thin. Those that are with you when you weather a storm are the types of people that keep you grounded and are the ones you should cherish the most because they are they kinds that offer you stability in the midst of chaos and confusion. I pray that as you watch this video, you will be given some insight as to who you have around you in your life right now and will gain some discernment as to who you should keep around you going forward. God Bless You Everybody! 😀


Rock Star


Hello Peeps!

Image result for vision may tarryI have a fun song to share today. Jesus is my Rock Star and I just wanted to share this fun song by J.R. feat. Flame called Rock Star to boost your spirit today if you feel low. We must remember that God is our source for all the things that we need in our lives. We can rely on our limited understanding and intellect, but there comes a point where you’ll release that when you need a breakthrough, you need to perceive the true source of your success. Don’t ever be enticed to go through short cuts just the “make it” in the world. Always operate in the realm of humility and hold fast to your integrity. Though the vision may tarry, wait for it and it will surely come to pass. Always remember that God’s intention is always to bless you in the fullness of time. If we become impatient, we will miss the right opportunities or will fail to recognize them if we remain inpatient and upset. So learn to still your heart and mind and focus on praying, meditating on God’s Word and putting your 100% Trust in God with all things, Amen! I pray that this song blesses your spirit today. God Bless You Everbody!  😀


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Tell Yourself!!!!


Hello Peeps!

I just wanted to share this short quick pick-me-upper of a video to encourage you today that no matter what it is that you’re going through, you’ve got to remember what the Word of God (The Bible) says about you in spite of your circumstances. Do not be discouraged nor dismayed about the things that try to distract you from keeping your focus on God’s call for your life. You will make it!!! You will achieve great things!!! You were made to be a winner, Amen! You’ve got to tell yourself that!!!! I pray that this video blesses your spirit today. God Bless You Everybody! 😀


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What Type of Christian Are You?


Hello Peeps!

Today I have two short clips to give you a dose of encouragement today. The first clip is about 4 types of Christians. I don’t know who the speaker is, however, please watch as he describes these four types and then ask yourself which type are you?



The last clip I have for you today is also another dose of encouragement by Dr. G. A. Lechuti. In this short clip, he talks about how we ought to view certain things in our lives based on how we think about ourselves in light of any circumstances we may face. I pray that as you watch these videos, may your spirit be encouraged if you are feeling low today. God Bless You Everybody! 😀


 

Testing the Spirit of a Person


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Today, I want to talk about something along the lines of building on Spiritual Discernment by learning to test the spirit of a person. What do I mean when I say that we should test the spirit of a person? Before I even tell you what I mean by that, let’s look at this verse of Scripture from the book of 1 John:


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1 John 4: 1-6 (NKJV)

Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world. By this you know the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is of Godand every spirit that does not confess that[a] Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not of God. And this is the spirit of the Antichrist, which you have heard was coming, and is now already in the world.

You are of God, little children, and have overcome them, because He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world. They are of the world. Therefore they speak as of the world, and the world hears them. We are of God. He who knows God hears us; he who is not of God does not hear us. By this we know the spirit of truth and the spirit of error.


As you can see, a person who does not confess nor believe that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh and is God is NOT a Christian. Such people are labeled as having the spirit of the Antichrist.


Now going back to what I was talking about with respect to spiritual discernment, how can we tell if someone is a “True Believer of  Jesus Christ” (a Christian) and when someone is masquerading as one?

You can only know this by testing a person’s spirit with the Word of God (The BIBLE) as your Standard and also by assessing their FRUITS. There are people who come into churches as wolves in sheep’s clothing, and therefore, it is imperative that as Christians we learn to discern and identify the characters of individuals that are pretentious in their conduct, who also try to target innocent and unsuspecting believers to stray from the path that God wants them to go.


Matthew 7:15-16 [Full Chapter]

You Will Know Them by Their Fruits ] “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves.16 You will know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes from thornbushes or figs from thistles?


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Even in The Book of Timothy, we are forewarned to be aware of such characters that creep into our lives and into the Church if you take a look at this scripture:


2 Timothy 3:1-7 (NKJV)

Perilous Times and Perilous Men

But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.

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These days, we really have to learn to become vigilant and seek to increase our knowledge of The WORD for ourselves rather than relying on a Sunday service to get our Bible fix. How can one increase in DISCERNMENT if you don’t feed your spirit with the TRUTH that is found in God’s Word (THE BIBLE)? Discernment doesn’t just happen. You can only discern the difference between what is True and what is False when you have acquired enough knowledge and life experience to be able to distinguish the difference between a fake versus the genuine article. That’s why it is so important that as Christians, we are not complacent and that we are active in our faith by reading and meditating on the Word (The Bible) for ourselves. Even the Bible instructs us to do this in The Book of Joshua:


Joshua 1:8 [Full Chapter]

This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in itFor then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.

31d10-godNow going back to the topic of testing the spirit of a person…what exactly do I mean by that? You now know that discernment is definitely required in order to do this. When you sense that someone is off, that gut feeling you get is most likely the Holy Spirit convicting your spirit (the inner man) to be aware of something that you would not otherwise have been aware of by your own level of understanding and experience. People can be conniving and pretentious around you, and the only way to be able to discern when someone is off is by Testing their spirit


You must be wondering what does “testing the spirit” mean and how does one go about testing the spirit” of a person? Let me change the phrase to make you understand what it is that I’m talking about…. “testing the spirit of a person” is the same thing as “testing the personality and character of a person”.


Now that you understand what I mean, how does one go about testing the spirit of a person” you must be wondering? Well, I will only talk about this based on my personal experience. For me, when I notice that someone is off, I watch and observe them for a long long period of time to assess whether they are consistent in their conduct, deeds, actions, and also watch to see if they remain consistent with the things that they say and confess out of their mouths. The Holy Spirit has always alerted/prompted me to when someone is off by making me notice things that I would not have otherwise picked up if I had relied on my general senses.


The Holy Spirit prompts me to notice the following when assessing a person’s Character and behavioural patterns:


  • Does a person’s words match their Image result for lie detectoractions? If they do not…then are they not dishonest and/or untrustworthy? Why stand for wishy washy behaviour?
  • Does a person give you a half-baked answer or half-truth when asking them a direct question? You’ve got to ask yourself: What are they trying to conceal or hide if they aren’t telling you the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth? It should be identified that a half-truth is a lie…period.
  • If a person uses flattery in their speech, are they being genuine with their words or are they being pretentious and disingenuous with their answers? Why flatter you with sweet nothing with their words? What is the purpose of their flattery? Is the purpose of their flattery to gain unfair advantage or favour over another person (i.e. sucking up)? Is it honest admiration or is the intention to flatter you with sweet-nothings in their words to boost your ego and pride in order to gain advantage or receive favour from you? Must someone suck up to you just in order to make it in the world? Ask yourself these questions people!
  • When a person is crafty (key word here people), they appeal to the emotions of an unsuspecting person who lacks the discernment to figure out that they’re being played and toyed around with. If you are a “needy” person as an individual, you will be vulnerable to such a person that knows how to manipulate you into doing something you would not otherwise do if you had decided to remain in your “right mind”.
  • When a person operates with double-standards… You’ve got to ask yourself: “how can a person be one way in one instance, and then be a completely different person in another instance?” These are tell-tale signs of a “Double-minded man/woman”.
    he is a doubleminded man, unstable in all his ways.
  • When a person is self-seeking and self-serving for attention, favour, benefits without character; they will be the kinds of people that are quick to betray your confidence in them if it means that they can move up the ladder in the world regardless of the consequences for their actions. Some people in the workplace will even take credit for work that they didn’t even do in order to satisfy their selfish ambition, all because of their self-seeking and selfish behaviour. Do you know someone with these types of character traits in your life?
  • If a person loves money over people…believe me when I say that they are untrustworthy in all the things that they do. They are the people that most likely would have a seared conscience with respect to how they obtain their wealth if greed is a strong motivating factor for doing the things that they do in order to obtain their lust for money, wealth, prestige and anything attached to that lust.

The Holy Spirit provides us with the ability to discern individuals and their characters; however, we can only increase in discernment when we learn from our experiences when relating to different types of individuals that we encounter during our walk in life.


Image result for sharpening your discernmentI have met a lot of people in my life from a young age where many were either diplomats, business people from Fortune 500 companies etc, including just regular folk in my day-to-day life, and can tell you that when you seek God to grant you the discernment to be able to tell the difference between someone who is for you from someone who is against you, you’ll be surprised with what you can live through. When I got saved at the age of 16, my discernment level was extremely sharpened to the degree that I could identify who was coming against my family, and I would always forewarn my family members to not trust certain individuals nor entertain some crazy characters that would come to the house as “family friends”. The Lord even opened up my eyes to such a degree in that I could immediately tell who was operating with a spirit of witchcraft. When such individuals could identify that they were not fooling either me or my twin sister with their shenanigans, they found it difficult to operate with the devices that they tried to use to harm my family in some way.


Image result for conniving peopleWhen you seek God to open up your eyes to see things beyond “Face Value” and ask Him to sharpen your spiritual discernment, the Lord will grant you your request; however, I should say this as a disclaimer: you should keep in mind that once the Lord opens your spiritual and physical eyes to see things, be prepared to handle that which you do see. Some people want discernment but don’t understand what will happen once they receive it. Your entire world view and perspective will drastically change; however, you will become a wiser person in the long run when it comes to dealing with all types of people that exhibit various types of personalities. The best book that I’ve ever read regarding the topic of discernment is by Roberts Liardon called Sharpening Your Discernment I still recommend that book today if anybody wants to grow stronger in this area of their lives. That book is the best book I’ve ever read regarding this topic of Spiritual Discernment. You will learn so much from it and I guarantee that you’ll grow stronger and wiser in terms of your relationships with other people after reading it. As Christians, especially those who experience Spiritual Warfare, this is one area in your life that you must seek to grow strong in if you want to be successful with dealing with people you encounter in your life. Spiritual Discernment will enable you to make wise decisions and life choices as you go about your everyday business, Amen!


To end this post I’m posting this song by Zoe Grace called Blowing Kisses. I pray that it blesses your spirit today. God Bless You Everybody! 😀


Source of My Joy


Hello Peeps!

Happy Sunday! I just wanted to post this awesome song by Zoe Grace called  Source of My Joy.  This song is so upbeat that I know you’ll like it. If you’re feeling low, this song will pick you up. God is the source of my Joy. When life gives you lemons, God gives us a joy that is unspeakable to make lemonade. When you think you’re in the worst situation, God is able to turn around what was meant for evil for your good, because you love Him. I pray that this song blesses your spirit today. God Bless You Everybody! 😀


Genesis 50:20 (NKJV)

20 But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive.


Nehemiah 8:10 [Full Chapter]

Then he said to them, “Go your way, eat the fat, drink the sweet, and send portions to those for whom nothing is prepared; for this day is holy to our Lord. Do not sorrow, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.”

Integrity is NOT Easy – Part 3 (Final)


In the last post, I was at Job 41 where I discussed Leviathan briefly. If you study this particular chapter, it describes Leviathan’s characteristics intricately and I found the last verse of scripture interesting when it states the following in Job 41:34:

He beholds every high thing;
He is king over all the children of pride.”


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Leviathan is King over all the Children of PRIDE. This is a very important note to take concerning the spirit of Leviathan. Those that operate with a spirit of PRIDE in their lives are referred to as the Children of PRIDE where Leviathan is the King and Father of PRIDE (a.k.a Satan/Lucifer). Those that operate with such a spirit often mock those that operate with a Spirit of HUMILITY which comes from God through the power of the Holy Spirit. If you think about it, Job was being tested for his character that he bore throughout his trials and tribulations to see if he would act out in PRIDE or defiance towards God, but Job chose to remain humble and steadfast despite his dire circumstances. One thing I like about Job was that he embraced his humility and refused to answer with a prideful tongue over his circumstances nor did he blame God for all these calamities that were befalling him.


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How many of us know that some of us would probably blame God for our misfortunes if things go down the wrong way in our lives? It would be nice to assume that we’d never speak against God when we face horrible circumstances…but we don’t know who or how we really would be, until we are faced with such circumstances that test our very own CHARACTERS.


When pride comes, then comes shame; But with the humble is wisdom.


By pride comes nothing but strife, But with the well-advised is wisdom.

In Job 42the Lord was angry with Job’s so-called friends and spoke to Eliphaz in Job 42:7-8:


And so it was, after the Lord had spoken these words to Job, that the Lord said to Eliphaz the Temanite, “My wrath is aroused against you and your two friends, for you have not spoken of Me what is right, as My servant Job has. Now therefore, take for yourselves seven bulls and seven rams, go to My servant Job, and offer up for yourselves a burnt offering; and My servant Job shall pray for you. For I will accept him, lest I deal with you according to your folly; because you have not spoken of Me what is right, as My servant Job has.

Related imageCan you imagine the Lord chastising your so-called friends for having spoken ill-will of you and accusing you of having done something wrong to deserve all these spiritual warfare-like attacks and calamities? Sometimes, as Christians, we face spiritual warfare in different ways that manifest as sicknesses, financial woes, familial strife, disaster upon disaster whether it be natural or even supernatural in nature, and it may not be caused by any fault of our own. It’s just that we tend to forget that we have an ADVERSARY (THE DEVIL) that petitions day and night to see us all go down to our demise. SPIRITUAL WARFARE IS REAL PEOPLE OF GOD!!!!! We can’t ignore this fact as Christians and that is why I’m emphasizing the story of Job today so that as Christians, we can become sensitive to recognize when our brother or sister is struggling and that we need the discernment to realize where such attacks are coming from especially if your brother or sister is in RIGHT STANDING. The Lord’s response to Job’s friends was that they needed to make it right with Job and repent of their actions for they had heavily displeased the Lord with their presumptuous accusations and taunting against Job’s calamities.


So Eliphaz the Temanite and Bildad the Shuhite and Zophar the Naamathite went and did as the Lord commanded them; for the Lord had accepted Job10 And the Lord restored Job’s losses[a] when he prayed for his friends. Indeed the Lord gave Job twice as much as he had before. 11 Then all his brothers, all his sisters, and all those who had been his acquaintances before, came to him and ate food with him in his house; and they consoled him and comforted him for all the adversity that the Lord had brought upon him. Each one gave him a piece of silver and each a ring of gold. 

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Double for my Trouble!


The result of Job’s faithfulness to withstand all these tests from the Adversary was that the Lord restored Job’s losses and received DOUBLE FOR HIS TROUBLE. His friends would not have been forgiven had not Job prayed and interceded for his friends. That is a very important thing to note here because sometimes, people remain cursed if they are not repentant nor have sought to right the wrongs they have made against their brother or sister through their actions. Sometimes, some curses that operate in people’s lives remain until they have righted a wrong. People may not believe in the reality of curses… but, believe me when I say, that such curses do exist and they can become generational in nature if one fails to repent of the wrong done to another. It is only through repentance, renunciation and confession that one can be set free from a potential generational curseJob’s friends did the right thing by restoring Job’s honor with their gifts of repentance signified by their offering of silver and a ring of Gold in Job 42:11. The Lord rebuked his friends and chastised them for running their mouths against Job when they spoke in ignorance concerning what was really going on with Job. It is clear to me that they had no concept of the realities of SPIRITUAL WARFARE that Job faced and could only run their mouths feeling self-righteous and justified in their accusations against Job. 


Image result for Job's trialsSometimes, as people, we should learn never to be presumptuous about another person’s affair when we don’t know the full scope of their story. It is better to stay quiet rather than to speak out of ignorance trying to make sense of a person’s trial or tribulation. Sometimes you may find yourself with friends that are trying to be well meaning to understand what you’re going through, but sometimes, they really ought to just shut up if they don’t know what’s really going on with you, especially if they are inexperienced in the realities of SPIRITUAL WARFAREJob faced severe Spiritual Warfare and learned a great deal about how to remain HUMBLE when facing such a Spiritual Storm. Not many Christians know how to endure such trials to the end, so it is important to highlight the realities of SPIRITUAL WARFARE so that no Christian can put their head in the sand when things start going south for the winter in their lives thinking that these things will simply go away without a fight. Job’s fight was intensely Physical, Emotional, Mental and Spiritual, so as Christians, we must learn a lot from JOB’s experiences is my real message today. NO ONE is exempt from experiencing SPIRITUAL WARFARE so Christians, BUCK UP!


The ending of for JOB was one filled with rejoicing if you take a look at the concluding verses of scripture in Job 42:12-17 9 [The Final Chapter]:


12 Now the Lord blessed the latter days of Job more than his beginning; for he had fourteen thousand sheep, six thousand camels, one thousand yoke of oxen, and one thousand female donkeys. 13 He also had seven sons and three daughters. 14 And he called the name of the first Jemimah, the name of the second Keziah, and the name of the third Keren-Happuch. 15 In all the land were found no women so beautiful as the daughters of Job; and their father gave them an inheritance among their brothers.

16 After this Job lived one hundred and forty years, and saw his children and grandchildren for four generations. 17 So Job died, old and full of days.


Image result for Job's trialsJob’s ending was nothing short of VICTORIOUS! This story is so amazing in that Job teaches us that we should remain steadfast in our Faith to God no matter what trials or tribulations we face, for when we do, God blesses us in the fullness of Time after we have done all to Stand. I pray that as you meditate on Job’s life experience filled with various adversities through my 3-Part Posts, you will look back at your own life and search deep within yourself to find areas where you need to develop and increase in your faith in God so that when trouble does come, you will have the Faith to Stand firm and not be moved by what you see, hear or experience. Remember: God has not forsaken you.


Hebrews 13:5 [Full Chapter]

Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.

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GOD will never leave you nor forsake you, so remember that fact, whenever you find yourself doubting whether or not God is with you in your dire circumstances. Keep praying and keep believing in God even when the World taunts you and discourages you. It is that steadfast faith that brought Job Double for his Trouble. The same can be applied to you if you just learn to believe, Amen!


Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.

To finish this post with a bang I wanted to post this song by Israel Houghton called Reckless Love. The beat of this song is just phenomenal and I pray that this post blesses you today. God Bless You Everybody! 😀


Integrity is NOT Easy – Part 2


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As a continuation from my previous post, I want to continue on this journey with Job and the things that he had to endure while remaining steadfast in his Faith in God. Some people can go through trials and forget God along the way or worse yet, deny Him and forsake Him. Job had countless opportunities to forsake his faith in God, but he held onto his integrity because he knew that what he was enduring was not of God. Clearly, Satan had petitioned many trials for Job to face just to get him to deny the Lord’s name. As Christians, we sometimes need to learn to remain quiet  with respect to another person’s plight and not be presumptuous about why someone is facing certain tribulations in their life. There are moments when we all will get tested in one way or another regarding where we stand in our faith in God. However, those that endure to the end, will receive a great reward, and this is why I want to explore Job’s mentality throughout the whole situation he was in. So let me continue on with what Job did in this list as I scour through the chapters.


18. In Job 19Job chooses to trust in his Redeemer. When all else fails you, who else do you have to rely on except the King of kings?! Job’s friends were not reliable at all so Job remains anchored in his faith to God to relieve him of his situation.


19. In Job 20 – Job’s friend Zophar gives a sermon on “The Wicked Man”. It seems like he’s insinuating that Job has some an area of wickedness in him that could be the cause of all the calamities befalling on Job. Again… Zophar is incredibly presumptuous. This is what it’s like to have an “un-friendly friend” people. Sometimes the closest people you have in your life can disappoint you the greatest, especially when what you want from them is genuine support. Be aware that the friends you have in your life aren’t perfect human beings so don’t expect too much from them in the first place if you want to avoid being disappointed by them.


20. In Job 21 Job gives a discourse on the Wicked. He says his two cents worth to his friends as I’m sure he’s tired of their mockery. It’s clear to him that his friends can’t see the errors of their judgment towards Job and nor can they see how presumptuous they are in trying to understand Job’s plight. Sometimes it’s best to keep quiet with respect to another person’s crisis rather than sounding off your opinion on the matter if you really don’t know what’s going on with that person’s situation. However, in this case, Job’s friends continue to mock and ridicule Job feeling like they understand his circumstances when really, they do not.


21. In Job 22 Eliphaz accuses Job of “Wickedness”. You’ll be surprised with what you can live through. Even your closest friends can disappoint you to no end when they start to point the finger at you and accuse you for doing something that you’ve never done to warrant all these bad tidings. Sometimes people need to shut up if they don’t understand what’s really going on with you. There is this saying that I think Eliphaz needed to take heed to when I read this scripture…and that is… “If you’ve got nothing good to say, then don’t say it!”. Need I say more?….


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22. In Job 23 Job proclaims God’s righteous judgments.


23. In Job 24 Job complains about the violence on the earth as he references the plight and injustices experienced by the widows, the orphans (fatherless), and the poor and needy, from the crimes of the thief, the murderer, and the adulterer. There are too many injustices that Job complains about in this chapter.


24. In Job 25 – Bildad, Job’s friend asks him how man can be righteous?


25. In Job 26 Job answers Bildad by talking about man’s frailty and God’s Majesty.


26.  In Job 27 – Job maintains his integrity despite all the things his friends have said to him. He also continues to clarify what the portion of the wicked man who heaps up treasures for him/herself is what will be given to those who are righteous and the innocent will divide the silver if you read verses Job 27:16 – 17:

16 Though he heaps up silver like dust,
And piles up clothing like clay—
17 He may pile it up, but the just will wear it,
And the innocent will divide the silver.


27.  In Job 28 – Job gives his discourse concerning “Wisdom”. He claims in verse 13, that man does not know the value of Wisdom nor is it found in the land of the living (Job 28:13). In Job 28:23Job tells us that:God understands its way, And He knows its place” and that finally in: Job 28:28 – And to man He said, ‘Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom, And to depart from evil is understanding.’”


28. In Job 29 Job gives a summary of his defense as he mentions his good deeds.

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29. In Job 30, 31  Job continues on with his summary of his defense and cries out to God regarding his calamities. He also continues to seek God to show him where he his done wrong so that he can right it as he continues to search for the reason as to why he’s facing all these troubles.


30. In Job 32Elihu contradicts Job’s friends. He is younger than Job’s friends and was busy listening to their arguments to justify Job’s plight and was seemingly annoyed and ticked off about their presumptuous answers that offered no consolation or empathy to Job’s calamities.


31. In Job 33  Elihu contradicts Job and tells him that he isn’t righteous in: Job 33:12 – “Look, in this you are not righteous. I will answer you, For God is greater than man. Elihu tries to act like he’s empathizing but he seems to have doubts about Job’s righteousness.


32. In Job 34 Elihu proclaims God’s justice and tries to argue that the justice of God is unlike the justice provided by men. The scales are just too different to be weighed out by man’s opinion alone.


33. In Job 35 – Elihu condemns self-righteousness


Image result for Job's trials33. In Job 36 – Elihu proclaims God’s goodness and declares that God gives justice to the oppressed in Job 36:6. Elihu also proclaims of God’s majesty in the same chapter as he declares in (Job 36:26“Behold, God is great, and we do not know Him; Nor can the number of His years be discovered). He also states that hypocrites store up wrath for themselves and that their lives end among the perverted persons as the Lord delivers the poor from their affliction and opens their ears in their oppression (Job 36:13-15). Elihu also proclaims God’s majesty in the same chapter. 


34. In Job 37 – Elihu continues his discourse regarding God’s majesty. In  verses 23-24 – it appears that Elihu insinuates to Job that he should not think himself as wise of heart for God does not show partiality.

23 As for the Almighty, we cannot find Him;
He is excellent in power,
In judgment and abundant justice;
He does not oppress.
24 Therefore men fear Him;
He shows no partiality to any who are wise of heart.”


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35. In Job 38 and 39 – The Lord reveals His Omnipotence to Job. It seems to me that in verses 2-3 the Lord seems to be rebuking Job’s friends regarding their presumptuous attitudes towards Job’s plight.

Job 38:2-3

Then the Lord answered Job out of the whirlwind, and said:

“Who is this who darkens counsel. By words without knowledge? Now prepare yourself like a man; I will question you, and you shall answer Me.


36. In Job 40 – The Lord answers Job and asks him the following in versus 1-2:

40 Moreover the Lord answered Job, and said: “Shall the one who contends with the Almighty correct Him? He who rebukes God, let him answer it.”

Job responds to the Lord’s question and says in Job 40:4-5:

“Behold, I am vile;
What shall I answer You?
I lay my hand over my mouth.
Once I have spoken, but I will not answer;
Yes, twice, but I will proceed no further.”


God then proceeds to challenge Job with various questions in Job 40:6-24I find it interesting that the Lord mentions Behemoth in Job 40:15:

“Look now at the behemoth,[a] which I made along with you;
He eats grass like an ox.


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Behemoth – The Hippopotamus aka the Water Ox


Side Note: Behemoth [N] [H] [S]( Job 40:15-24 ). Some have supposed this to be an Egyptian word meaning a “water-ox.” The Revised Version has here in the margin “hippopotamus,” which is probably the correct rendering of the word. The word occurs frequently in Scripture, but, except here, always as a common name, and translated “beast” or “cattle.” 

Info Source: https://www.biblestudytools.com/dictionary/behemoth/

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Satan as Leviathan


And he also mentions Leviathan in Job 41:1:

“Can you draw out Leviathan[a] with a hook,
Or snare his tongue with a line which you lower?


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Leviathan – The Crocodile


Side Note: Leviathan [N] [T] [B] [E](jointed monster ) occurs five times in the text of the Authorized Version, and once in the margin of ( Job 3:8 ) where the text has “mourning.” In the Hebrew Bible the word livyathan , which is, with the foregoing exception, always left untranslated in the Authorized Version, is found only in the following passages: ( Job 3:8 ; 41:1 ; Psalms 74:14 ; 104:26 ; Isaiah 27:1 ) In the margin of ( Job 3:8 ) and text of ( Job 41:1 ) the crocodile is most clearly the animal denoted by the Hebrew word. ( Psalms 74:14 ) also clearly points to this same saurian. The context of ( Psalms 104:26 ) seems to show that in this passage the name represents some animal of the whale tribe, which is common in the Mediterranean; but it is somewhat uncertain what animal is denoted in (Isaiah 27:1 ) As the term leviathan is evidently used in no limited sense, it is not improbable that the “leviathan the piercing serpent,” or “leviathan the crooked serpent,” may denote some species of the great rock-snakes which are common in south and west Africa.


Info source: https://www.biblestudytools.com/dictionaries/smiths-bible-dictionary/leviathan.html


Clearly, the Lord is indicating to Job the true source of his afflictions and plight for his faithfulness and righteousness. God knows that Job will overcome this season of trial and testing initiated by the Adversary.


….to be continued onto Part 3 of this post.

Integrity is NOT Easy – Part 1


Hello Peeps!

I just wanted to reflect on the Biblical character of Job who was tested in many ways in his life so that his integrity could be compromised. Who said that leading a lifestyle with integrity was easy has to be a liar. In NO way is living a life filled with integrity easy. There are so many things found in this world that are geared at enticing us to stray from our moral and godly compass, that we literally have to guard our hearts and minds as is written in the following scripture:


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Philippians 4:6-8 (NKJV)

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Meditate on These Things

Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthymeditate on these things.


Satan wants us as Christians to not hold fast to what is True; to what is Noble; to what is Just; to what is Pure; to what is Lovely; to whatever is of a Good Report; and to anything that has Virtue or is Praiseworthy. These are the things that we must hold fast to with respect to maintaining a Godly Character as Christians. If we knock out these virtues at anytime in our walk with God, we compromise our very own INTEGRITY. Job knew that holding onto his integrity would come at a huge cost, but his Faith in God allowed him to endure various trials and tribulations that allowed God to bless Him. Because the story of Job is pretty long, I’m going to have to separate his trials into 2 or 3 posts. So here is Part 1.


What were the trials that Job faced?:

1. In Job 1:6-12 – Satan attacked Job’s Character.


2. In Job 1:13-22Job loses his property to the Sabeans through armed robbery as they also killed his servants in the process; and all of Job’s children perish in his house as a strong wind blew the house down and crushed all the children who were in it.

But what was Job’s response to this tragedy? It was praise:

Job 1:20-22 (NKJV)

20 Then Job arose, tore his robe, and shaved his head; and he fell to the ground and worshiped. 21 And he said:

“Naked I came from my mother’s womb,
And naked shall I return there.
The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away;
Blessed be the name of the Lord.”

22 In all this Job did not sin nor charge God with wrong.


3. Related imageIn Job 2:1-10 – Satan attacks Job’s health. The calamity that befell him regarding his health even got his wife to speak against God in verse Job 2:9 Then his wife said to him, “Do you still hold fast to your integrity? Curse God and die!”.

However, Job did not listen to his wife and called her foolish for he refused to curse God with his lips in:

 Job 2:10 – 10 But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity?” In all this Job did not sin with his lips.

In Job 2:11-13Job’s three friends – Eliphaz the Temanite, Bildad the Shuhite, and Zophar the Naamathite all came to visit Job and mourn with him as they witnessed the calamities that Job was experiencing while choosing to remain steadfast in his unwavering faith to God. In looking at what Job was going through, you’ve got to ask yourself this question as a Christian: Was this the price of holding onto one’s integrity? Is it really worth it? …


4. In Job 3:1- 26Job deplores his birth. Basically, it’s as if he regrets the day he was born and kind of goes on with a long lamentation regarding the worth of his life in this long mournful speech. Depression is very real here my friends. When you see your Christian brother or sister suffering, it’s not like as if they want to suffer just for simply doing the “right thing”. The world has many temptations that could lead us to opt out of being a Christian when times get tough and we could simply sell our souls out to the devil when we hit rock bottom, but what I find to be amazing about Job, is that he still chose to endure to the end and God blessed him for his faithfulness.


5. In Job 4 Job’s friend Eliphaz assumes that Job’s problems are due to some sin that Job has committed. Eliphaz is indeed incredibly presumptuous to assert to this conclusion.


6.  In Job 5 – Job’s friend Eliphaz continues with his presumptions by claiming that Job is being chastened by the Lord. How many of you have had that “One” friend, who watches you go through hell and starts accusing you of having done something wrong to deserve all the calamities that keep going your way? Eliphaz epitomizes such a friend that is indeed presumptuous and talks back with an attitude of self-righteousness since they can’t seem to understand this one thing that sometimes – Bad things happen to good people. 


7. In Job 6Job ignores his friends presumptuous behaviour and declares that his complaints are just. Just because Eliphaz doesn’t understand why Job is going through this hell, doesn’t mean that he should point the finger at Job by claiming that there must be some hidden sin Job has committed for all these bad things to be happening to him.


8. In Job 7Job feels that his suffering is comfortless. I mean, can you blame him for thinking that way though? With friends like Eliphaz, who needs enemies huh?!


9. In Job 8 Bildad, Job’s other friend suggests that Job should repent. Again, his other friend is no better than Eliphaz. Both of them are presumptuous to Job’s trials.


10. In Job 9 – Upon hearing Bildad’s suggestions to repent for something Job hasn’t done, Job begins to feel like there is no mediator to his cause. Wouldn’t you feel the same way when going through this hell? Job’s friends are simply not helping this situation at all!


11. In Job 10Job chooses to plead with God to either intercede in his situation or to take away his life. At this point, Job is in dire straights. He has comfortless friends… and is definitely feeling all alone through this trial. Will God answer to his prayers and lamentations? 


12. In Job 11Zophar, Job’s third friend urges Job to Repent. The question is, what does Job need to repent of? As far as God is concerned, Job is in right-standing and is blameless… but Job’s friends still assume that Job has some “hidden sin” that he may have failed to repent of, and thus assume, that if Job repents of that “hidden sin”, all of these calamities should end. Isn’t that still presumptuous though?


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Job with his “so called” friends Eliphaz, Bildad and Zophar


13. In Job 12, 13, and 14 – Job chooses to answer to his critics (his friendsEliphaz, Bildad and Zophar). He rebukes them for their mockery and ridicule, and also maintains that he is not inferior to them in Job 12:3. Job then gives a despondent prayer in Job 13: 20 -28.


14. In Job 15 Job’s friend Eliphaz accuses Job of Folly. It is pretty clear that Job’s friends are not convinced that Job’s trials and tribulations were not brought on him without cause. Job cannot believe his friends accusations.


15. In Job 16Job reproaches his pitiless friends. Clearly, Job’s friends have not walked a mile in Job’s shoes, and therefore, can come up with various reasons as to why Job is going through hell at the moment. Not once did any of them consider Job to be blameless and without cause for the trials he has had to endure.


Image result for Job's trials16. In Job 17 – Job prays for relief. He is at a point where he is reaching rock bottom with respect to his sanity. When you have no one supporting you as all hell breaks loose in your life, you can feel very isolated and alone that you will start to think suicidal thoughts in such dire moments. Many times does Job cry out to God for God to take his life. He is certainly feeling suicidal at this point. I mean, there comes a point when one realizes that Enough is Enough!


17. In Job 18 Bildad doesn’t like the fact that Job isn’t listening to their accusations and feels like Job is pointing to his friends as the “Bad guys” who feel like they’re informing Job of where his problem lies in Job 18: 1-4. Have you ever had a friend that pinned the blame on you for the trials that you face even though the circumstances surrounding you are not by your own fault or making? This is what it’s like to have an “unfriendly – friend” by your side. Again, I say, who needs enemies when you have friends like Job’s?


Jobs Trials to be Continued in Part 2

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